COMMENTS ON OTHERS BLOGS

Paeodophilia / Rape
Arsenal Till I Die said...
hi, i agree with what u are saying. the punishment for rape/paeodophilia is a JOKE!! people get more for robbing a store which is minor compared to rape!..i think rapist should be raped too.its so sad when you hear about young kids raped and stuff, its just so sad and makes you wonder what kind of sicko's wander our streets!! whats worse is rape in the family as in incest, thats just brutal, those kind of people should be hanged.!

Hooliganism
Arsenal Till I Die said...
hey, i liked your blog on hooliganism!! English football has certainley changed, i think its because the fans are used to England not winning anything!! i have read in many papers and website that statistics showed that when england were kicked out the world cup last year, there was a rise in domestic violence. maybe hooliganism on the pitch has decreased but its taking place within the home. itallian football has certainly changed as of late, its so terrible what is happening there, its one of the biggest leagues with some good teams and when things like that happen there it makes me wonder if it will kick off in england too. what do you think is the reason for this?? is it passion or just stupidity? i havent really seen any violence in football, like proper violence. but when i was watching a champions league match 2 seasons ago i think, with Ac Milan playin Inter Milan i was appaulled to see the fans throwing fireworks onto the pitch. it was disgraceful and shocking!!well cant wait till chelsea come 2 ashburton grove on the last day of the season, ashley cole will get tortured muhahahahaha!

Bandits & Outlaws
Arsenal Till I Die said...
i agree with u.. bandits and outlaws are social deviant and they are BAD andddd this is what this module is about.. they can kill and steal from whoever they like.. i mean we all can but it depends on ur personality and psychoness. like robin hood... he stole from the rich for the poor so that kind of justifies his actions.. everyone attempts to justify their actions whatever the situation... but it depends on how socially acceptable the reason is.. why do all these bandits and outlaws have funny kiddish names like the sundance kid??.. bon jovi have a song about it/him.. i havent listened to the song enough to discover what the song is exactly about but im pretty sure its about banditism, the sundance kid in particular.

"Week Four Lecture: Masturbation"
Arsenal4Life said...
hi thanks for leaving a comment on my blog. i agree with your views on masterbation in that it is wrong, and for the same reasons, because of religious beliefs. im a Muslim and my religion forbids anything like masterbation or sex b4 marriage which i also agree with but not only for religious beliefs but for dignity and respect for yourself..but thats another debate for another time. Ive never really masterbated, i dont understand how a person can be aroused by their own hand?if it was a partner or some besides yourself perhaps you can get turned on and the rest of it.. but personally i find masterbation pointless.what i would like to know is where and when exactly did the change come about from masterbation being such a taboo subject and almost an illness turning into the norm?.. i know its the 21st century and bla bla but i'd like a pinpoint time as to how it became so ok... and how and why?.... i see masterbation as sort of degrading hence thats why i usually call someone a masturbater as an insult.

"Body modifications!!"
Arsenal Till I Die said...
yes u ARE pathetic.. and stop making up stupid words like FREAKNITION and PLASTICFIED..i agree with what you said about ppl using sacred symbols as tattoo's when they do not even know the significance or history behind it!..i still think extreme tattooing and peircing all over the body is just a whole other level that must have a different theory to why they do it...!!

"Football drunken people."
your blog is very interesting especially as you talk about things we havent discussed in lecture... i think i might do the same!.. anyway, i think that even if people were not drunk they would still act wildly if their team won, especially if it was a local derby like wolves vs west brom. i think if there are more people that support the same team there is likely to be more fights and what not. im an arsenal fan and when we beat man united TWICE this season i was over the moon ecstatic and wanted to kick in the heads of each and every man united supporter. however i dont know any real arsenal supporters, if i was at the match surrounded by fellow gooners i think i would actually do the act of beating someone up.. i know it sounds insane but when you are passionate about something and you do the unthinkable (like when we beat united in the last 10 mins of the game when we were 1-0 down).. its like having multiple orgasms.. but still it can get out of hand and its really dangerous too like in the movie Green Street Hooligans (its fantastic).i work at the villa shop and im quite suprised that we havent had any drunken weirdo's come into the shop....YET!

END OF MODULE

Age?
20


Sex?

Female

What is your degree subject (both if joint)?

Psychology Bsc.

Does ‘Being Bad’ relate well to the other modules you are taking?

yes


If so, how? And if not, why not?

it looks at deviancy and topics which psychology attempts to understand and explain such as tattooing, religion and gambling.

Have you found ‘Being Bad’ too demanding, too easy, or at an appropriate level?

personally i think it was too easy, in that note making and revising was not required which is a good thing!

Do you think the list of topics covered on the module was appropriate?

yes, one or two were not really 'bad', such as being too religious and bad comedians because these things are becoming more acceptable.

Are there any topics not included in the module that you would like to see included?

yes, honour killings, football hooliganism, hitting children/domestic violence, other life forms such as vampires/witches/ghosts/aliens.

Do you think that the format for classes has worked well?

no, other students kept talking and laughing and it was difficult to hear the lecturer and other students voice their thoughts.

What did you think of the module team?

some of them were lifeless and boring and could not command the class, but some such as Mark made the lectures more interesting.

Do you think it would have been better to have had more:
Small group discussions?..YES
Discussion and debate among the class as a whole? YES, but some people kept going on about themselves and bringing personal issues into the lecture as an example, it was emphasised too much and the lectures became like a shrinks room!
Information and talk from lecturers? YES

The approach taken in the module is interdisciplinary (drawing on perspectives from English Literature, Film Studies, Creative Writing, Philosophy, Religious Studies, Media Studies and Politics): do you think this a useful way of approaching the topics covered in the module?
Yes, it allows you to understand the main subject you are studying when actually you are learning something different.


Do you think that interdisciplinary modules are a good idea?

yes, they broaden the horizon.

Do you think you have benefited from the interdisciplinary approach taken in the module?

yes, but i would have understood more if people would shut up when the lecturer was talking..

Would you like to see more modules that cover this kind of subject matter?

yes.

Are you planning to take the follow-up module PH2004 ‘It Shouldn’t Be Allowed’ at level 2?

if i can choose an elective, i will definatley consider PH2004

Would you recommend ‘Being Bad’ to a friend?

yes i would

Do you think that the blogs (web logs) were a good idea?

yes they were because you can voice your opinion without being shy about them, in the lecture room a person may be less confident to say what they feel.

What did you think of the other assessments (e.g. would it be better to have one longer assessment rather than two shorter ones?)?

i thought they were appropraite but the word limits didnt allow me to write to the best of my ability.

What have you learned from the module?

that we shouldnt judge people who are different to us.

What parts of the module have you found most useful and why?

body modification, it taught me something i didnt know, such as their origins... also infidelity was interesting as it went in depth.

What parts do you think were a waste of time and why?

the KIDS movie, you can read my blog on in to know why..

Are there any other comments you wish to make regarding ‘Being Bad’

Its the end of the module now, and im kinda sad because its been a change from having boring lectures sitting on my arse and trying to quickly jot down notes from the projector screen before the lecturer clicks it over to the next page... however i will not miss it so much because i wont have to stay till 8pm yay!

this module has been enlightening as it has taught me about the different types of individuals which exist in society and how they are portrayed. because i have studied sociology and psychology i do have an open mind which made it pretty easy for me to accept the things which were presented within the lectures such as masterbation and being too religious, some topics which made people get up and leave.

i think we should have had Mark for most lectures because he was a laugh (though he couldnt get the class to shut the hell up!).. all the other lecturers were good too

WOMEN in FOOTBALL

SEXISM IN FOOTBALL

in a recent football match between Blackburn Rovers and Fulham, there was something majorly different.. the commentator was a WOMAN by the name of Jacqui Oatley (a Wolves fan). .. .

this should have be a break of a new dawn, which would introduce more female commentators, instead she was criticised by some of the other commentators and audience. One called her performance during Fulham's 1-1 draw with Blackburn "truly horrendous", while another said the commentary sounded like "the noise at a kids' party".

Dave Bassett opined that:

"Commentary is different. You must have an understanding of the game and the tactics, and I think in order to do that you need to have played the game."

He also said:

"When she commentates at the weekend, I shall not be watching."

One sportswriter felt it was an "insult" to her more established BBC colleagues. Colleagues like Motty actually wished her well. The Premier League, Fulham manager Lawrie Sanchez and managing director David McNally, and Blackburn chairman John Williams were intelligent, supportive and generous.

i think its pretty pathetic to knock someone down on their first attempt at something they have not done before, i did not listen to the commentry myself but she couldnt have been THAT bad!!.. i mean its better than listening to commentators chatting crap, commenting on how wonderful cristiano ronaldo is and how wayne rooney is the worlds best player aswell as hyping up little teams with big money (chelsea!). Oatley knows about football, she was on the football team in school and university till she broke her leg. she has a great understanding and passion for the game. BBC Head of Football Niall Sloane stood by his decision to give Jacqui her chance and insisted she will cover more matches.

SUCCESSFUL WOMENS TEAM

On Monday 7th of May, the Arsenal womens team became the first to win the QUADRUPLE.. on their 20th anniversary.

they won the league title, the league cup, the FA cup against Charlton Athletic and became the first British womens team to reach the UEFA cup final and win it against Swedish team UMEA IK who had already won it 3 times. It could be argued that at Arsenal Womens (click to see roll of honour) team is more succesfull then the Arsenal Mens (click to see roll of honour) team, it would be interesting to see them both play eachother.

Its good to see that the media is broadcasting some of the womens cup finals on TV, though i was disappointed to read the Daily Mirror which was plastered with Manchester United winning the league, they won the league on SUNDAY, the media had all of Monday to broadcast it, on the Tuesday they should have had the Arsenal Ladies on the back page. i know it is asking alot, but i think womens football needs some recognition of some sort, especially if they have done the QUADRUPLE which none of the English League teams have failed to do (im not sure if any of the mens or womens teams from the foreign league have accomplished this). instead all i saw was a tiny teeny article about 3 sentences long in the bottom corner of the page. even the Arsenal website itself didnt bother doing major articles or interviews with the players, instead there was irrelevent news in the 'headlines' sections about the mens team and how they need to score more goals next season. some football websites such as Aston Villa's fail to even have a section on their site about their womens team. i know not many cares about womens football, who needs to watch womens football when there is mens football, but atleast it needs some sort of acknowledgement when such succes has been accomplished.

but i am glad that womens football is becoming some what popular, 24,529 supporters turned up to watch the FA cup final against Charlton Athletic, thats more than some grounds can hold!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/main.jhtml?xml=/sport/2007/05/08/sfgars08.xml

http://www.sportsjournalists.co.uk/blog/?p=562

http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/football/women/6632373.stm

Lying With Integrity

...Adrienne Rich...
"Lying is done with words and also with silence."

Everyone lies all the time about anything and everything.

small things and big.

i lie all the time... i lie to myself when im watching football. last year when i was watching Arsenal play in the Champions League final againt Barcelona after the score was 2-1, i lied to myself and convinced myself that arsenal would score 2 goals in the remaining 13 minutes of the game to lift the trophy they had yearned for, for so long!!... it was highly unlikely but possible...!!

i agree with Jade about Santa, why should you tell your child about Santa when he does not exist? you are lying to them for no reason, why does a child need to know about a person that is not real??.. im not sure if its part of the Christian faith, if it isnt then why promote Santa? i know he is associated with Saint Nicholas but not sure how Santa Clause came about. i would appreciate it if someone could inform me about it.

im not sure if witholding the truth is part of lying, im more on the side of saying its not lying because its just that we are not telling the person part of the truth.. it all comes down to wether you would rather tell someone the truth and hurt them?? or lie and see them happy?

sometimes people just lie for fun as some sort of an adrenaline rush to see what they can get away with.. i lied to my friend once that i was going out with Fredrik Ljungberg, and she believed me!!.. that lie only worked because she didnt know anything about Arsenal or football at all!.. and i lied on that occasion because she kept pestering me about why i didnt have a boyfriend, so i was inclined to shut her up.. hence the lie...!

Some of the reasons people choose to lie include the desire to:

• Avoid conflict,
  
• Avoid someone else' s anger or hurt,
  
• Avoid hurting someone' s feelings,
  
• Diminish someone else or make them feel bad,
  
• Feel more worthy of admiration and respect,
  Gain power,
  
• Avoid having to face an unpleasant truth about themselves,
  
• Avoid admitting mistakes, and
  
• Keep "the boat from rocking", hoping everything will pass over, unnoticed.
  

here is a website containing an article about lying: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4072816/

how to lie well: http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/lie/lie.html

KIDS (that revolting pointless movie we watched!)

wow... that movie didnt make me think differently, infact i thought it was revolting & pointless. the 'kids' in that movie are far too young to even be thinking about sex!! in the movie the first girl who lost her virginity looked no older than 12, i know its just a movie but what on earth is she doing with a 'boyfriend' at that age,plus he's in her bedroom and shes in her underwear!!???.. im 20 and although the thought of having wild passionate sex with Fredrik Ljungberg runs through my mind every second of every hour of every day.. im proud to say i am still a virgin.

.. in the movie the girls seem to want to sleep with the main character Telly,because they believe he has feelings for them, yet in real life young girls (and guys) sleep with eachother regardless of their feelings towards one another, it seems as though the experience of having sex is much more important than what it actually means to have sex. obviously in reality this all depends on family background and values, how and where the child was brought up and what kind of childhood they lived. ofcourse, even those kids who are from a family of good values, manners, affluency etc etc do these sort of things but much less than the counterparts. the movie also involved alcohol and drug abuse but was mostly based around sex. Telly's side kick Casper was drunk almost through out the whole movie, all the characters in that movie seemed to have no life whatsoever besides sex,alcohol and drugs.

the ending for me was very disappointing as it gave no closure at all!! Jennie (the one who finds out she contracted aids from Telly) doesnt even confront Telly when she has the oppertunity, instead she gets raped. the speach that Telly makes at the end of the movie about sex is all he has, and if it was taken away from him he would have nothing.. all i can say is what a load of bollocks!

the movie was just stupid and i saw no point to it, we all know this happens to certain people in certain places, why broadcast it even more, by showing it, its like saying it is acceptable. ofcourse every parent worries about their child in terms of drug/alcohol abuse,sex etc, no matter how good or bad their child is. how an earth can a parent and child watch that movie together??.

it seems like the aim of this movie was controversary, and it was at the time when it was released. but in todays society if a movie like this was made, i doubt anyone would care.

About the movie: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kids_(film)

About HIV- Symptoms & Signs: http://aids.about.com/cs/conditions/tp/signs.htm

Is there such thing as being TOO RELIGIOUS?

When the lecturer began the lecture with a quote from the Bible i did not find it offensive although i felt as though he was only speaking out to certain people in the room (those who follow Christianity). When we were asked to voice our opinions on what we thought of that, quite a few were not happy with it.

I almost always get stopped when im out in town by followers of certain religion trying to get me to listen to what they have to say about their religion. i do not find anything wrong with that as long as they take no for an answer the first time without being so persistant.

I thought this lecture was far the best, yet i found that many individuals considered it offensive in some way because they got up and left. i dont think anyone can be TOO religious, those who are very religious good on them. they are devoted to a certain way of life and appecriate what God has blessed them with. I think being religious is a good thing because it can keep you out of trouble such as being drunk, violence etc. Im pretty sure many relgions do not condone this behaviour, so being too religious or just religious at all is a good thing.

I am a Muslim, i'm not too religious although i know what my religion tells me about what i should and should not do. I would never preach my religion to anyone unless i had to defend myself if someone else was preaching their religion to me. i would not consider 'terrorists' as too religious as they are not following a religion at all, i have no idea what made up version of Islam they follow!! islam should not be associated with terrorism in anyway because they do not have anything to do with eachother whatever the media says! the Prophet Mohammed peace be upon him was in a situation where a Jew entered the Mosque and began to urinate inside it, People were about to take hold of him but the Prophet said to them "Leave him alone and throw a bucket of water over his urine, for you have been raised to deal with people gently and you have not been raised to deal with them harshly."

personally i dont think there is anything wrong or weird or dodgy about being too religious, infact i think people are not religios enough!!

(WOW i think this my shortest blog ever!)

BODY MODiFiCATiON

i hadn't realised that make up, haircuts or any minor change(s) to the self was classed as 'body modification'.

i dont quite agree with permanant body modification, if it is certain peircings then that is fine because you can remove them but having them in places like your throat and back are quite weird and dont understand why anyone would want to do that. i fail to comprehend the idea of peircing the genital area of men or women. piercing another part of the body say the tongue or bullybutton or nose are way different, because to look at, they are not so bad or make you want to 'cringe', it basically comes down to personal taste.

tattooing is much different as it usually represents something that is close to the heart, however with time, the feelings we have towards the object that we are close to may dissappear. for example Pamela Anderson had her husbands name TOMMY tattooed on her wedding finger but then they divorced, and so had it changed to MOMMY but then they reunited and she had TOMMY back on there.. and then they split... you get the idea.

i think maybe one or two tattoo's are ok, but having your whole body tattooed is pretty stupid and dont know why anyone would want to do that. Firstly, God has given us this body so shouldnt we atleast take care of it and APPRECIATE it in its original form?.. in my religion Islam, it is forbidden to tattoo ourselves anywhere or in any form, only Henna is allowed which is temporary and lasts about a fortnight. i think that some tattoo's are sexy but i would never get one done simply because it is against my religion. some individuals have pictures of Jesus Christ and Bhudda or religious symbols tattooed on their arms, although they are not part of MY religion, i still think it is in a way disrespectful to Jesus Christ, Bhudda ETC and people who follow them religions because those tattoo's are meant to be considered religious leaders who were looked upto and having a mere tattoo of them on the arm or wherever disregards who they are and what they did. although it is in fact a RECOGNITION of what they did, it just becomes a trend to some individuals. For example my friend is hindu but wears a cross, many christians are devoted to their religion and wear their cross with pride and perhaps seeing a person wearing it just for the sake of fashion/trend devalues the cross or any other religious symbol/person.

As a student of psychology, it seems that heavily tattooed and peirced individuals are in the extreme zone of aiming not to be a clone of everyone else, hence that person is really not themself,they are who they are without the modification and should just learn to accept it.
why would anyone want to be tatttoed and peirced all over?.. perhaps it is a sense of control they get from modifying their body. it probably gives them some sort of power and recognition/attention which they would fail to get otherwise, it could be an act of rebellion. or it could just be pure passion, ive seen plenty of fella's with the england flag and a british bulldog tattooed on their arm or leg and in football matches we always see big hairy men with tattoos of their football club, anyone who watches match of the day should know the Portsmouth supporter John Westwood who has the tattoo's of PFC tattooed all over his body, ive actually seen him in real life...hes scary!
we are entitled to our own opinions without offending people and only those who have modified their bodies really know the underlying truth behind the question WHY.. and im pretty sure theres not just one answer neither is there a right or wrong answer.

....BANDITS AND OUTLAWS....

DiCTiONARY DEFiNiTiON

ban·dit
1)A robber, especially one who robs at gunpoint.
2)An outlaw; a gangster.
3)One who cheats or exploits others.
4)Slang A hostile aircraft, especially a fighter aircraft.

out·law
1a) A fugitive from the law.
1b) A Habitutal criminal
1c) A rebel; a nonconformist: a social outlaw.
2)A person excluded from normal legal protection and rights.
3)A wild or vicious horse or other animal.
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i have never really thought or talked about this subject.. and i dont know why.. i mean i have discussed with friends about smoking, masterbation, infidelity and the rest of the mentioned topics.. but never this one....
... perhaps because the previous subjects are considered morally wrong whereas bandits and outlaws are legally wrong... i dont know how or why that may make a difference...!

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..im not sure what to write because i have never thought about this really.. but the lecturer talked (a bit too much.. !) about robin hood and i never really thought of him as a bandit/outlaw because he was doing a good thing. people are labelled differently depending on if what they did was good or bad. If a person somehow managed to rob say... (if i say a political figure i'l get in trouble!!!) lets just say someone very important like a president or royalty, then they would be considered a bandit/outlaw but if someone managed to rob Bin Laden or Myra Hindley they would be considered a hero.. in both examples the criminal is a bandit but it depends if society want to label them as that or not.

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Why are there not many female bandits or outlaws as men??? Even in movies.... its always the guy, such as Clint Eastwood in those western movies my dad keeps watching..Robin Hood as mentioned and Equilibrium and Minority Report (i have no idea what the last 2 movies are about but my friend mentioned them!!) and ofcourse my favourite PRISON BREAK!.. which is full of peado's, theives and murderers. One specific bandit/outlaw is the character Sucre who ended up in prison because he kept robbing a store so he could take his girlfriend out. but he got caught because his dopey cousin turned him in while he was robbing the shop to by an engagment ring for his girlfriend... in the computer game Grand Theft Auto (ive only played vice city one!!) the aim of the game is for Tommy Vercetti to kill people and get their money and then kill some more.. the aim of the game?.. i have no idea but i just go around beating up the prostitutes and taking their money...!

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Also the Bon jovi song 'Right Side of Wrong' is kind of like a justification and reason to be a bandit or outlaw...

the lyrics gooo....

Me and the wife, we need the money

We've got four kids all hungry, one on the way
Slip these sweat socks in your shirt and pray they think your packin'

Be sure to keep your head down, don't look 'em in the eye

And don't get fancy, Ricky, we ain't Jimmy Cagney

Look at me, let's do the job and let's get home tonight

I got a half tank of gas and if we run all the lights

We'll slip across the border on the wrong side of right

And just like Butch and Sundance we'll ride until the dawn

Sipping whiskey, singing cowboy songs

On the Right Side of Wrong

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it seems that there is a gene to everything these days... there is a link at the bottom to a website which thinks there is a correlation between certain genes and crime... again i think this is BULLPOO!

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its hard to discuss this topic because i know nothing of it and really do not have any personal interest at this point in time in my lifee.. so i shall end this bloggy here.!

: )

LiNKS

http://media.gn.apc.org/members/3/index10.html

http://youtube.com/watch?v=JRyziUQrJis <---- Bon Jovi Video

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ndWsG6cV-3A <---- Fernando Sucre Video

i n f i d e l i t y

DiCTiONARY DEFiNiTiON

in·fi·del·i·ty
1.Unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, especially a spouse.
2.An act of sexual unfaithfulness.
3.Lack of fidelity or loyalty.
4.Lack of religious belief.

WHAT MOi THiNKS...

firstly it is difficult to define infidelity due to the fact that many individuals have many different views on it.. for example many fail to come to a conclusion whether a one night stand is cheating or not...well is it really?..

i think it is... whether it is a kiss, a quick shag in the car or a 3 year affair... i even think that having feelings for another male or female whilst with a partner is a form of cheating..

for moi infidelity when a person is married is different to when a person is not.

personally i think it is fine to cheat on a partner as long as they dont find out.. 'what they dont know wont hurt them' is my motto.. ive never been with a guy long enough to call him my partner probably because i have cheated on all of them. for me its boredom because i get bored senseless with just the one guy. with two or even three (the more the better) theres much more variety, fun and experimentation.. Who knows? they could be doing the same behind your back... but thats all about trust and 'love'.. but if u 'love' the person.. there would really be no reason to cheat on ur partner.. ive been with 2 guys who both 'love' their girlfriends.. yet they were both with me at the same time as their girlfriends...

i think their idea of love must be distorted...

Yet my views are extremely different on married individuals with or without children, because both have taken the vow or promise infront of God to be faithful to one another. this comes into play with the 4th/last dictionary definition in that it is a lack of religious belief. because if we truly believed in God we would not sin by cheating or being infidel. most religions if not ALL consider infidelity in any term or situation a SIN..ANDDD many religions forbid sex before marriage or even having a partner which u intend to shag or have physical contact with is a sin.. so being a 'cheating, potential non-virgin' is an even BIGGER sin..!..


i understand that my views are kinda twistedish and contradictory (is that how u spell it??...) but my mind is a weirdo.. i blame my id, ego and superego aswell as freud and psychology who have messed up my mind big time!

ASHLEY COLE: THE UNFORGiVABLE iNFiDEL

As an Arsenal supporter its plain to see that Ashley Cole is an infidel..this is a classic story of love and infidelity.. (not really...but i like to think it is..!)
he was a boy who came from a family of hardcore arsenal fans, he was one himself!

.. he started playing at the arsenal academy and worked his way up the ranks to become one of the best players in England as well as for Arsenal themselves...he was a Gooner through and through, the fans loved him and the club valued him and vice versa. but one day he must have woken up and realised that this love was not enough for him so his heart along with his legs trotted across london to stamford bridge... how did this all happen?? was Ashley bored at Arsenal??? WHY?.. he was at one of the most succesful teams in England, there were up and coming young players and which fool would give up the chance of playing in the same team as thierry henry.. that fool has a name.. and its name is ASHLEY COLE!
... he went behind Arsenals back.. the manager..his team mates.. the loving fans... he teamed up with the scum...he met up with the moron known as jose mourinho and peter kenyon the chelsea manager and director or whatever his stupid useless job is.. they tried to lure him in and ashley did noting to stop them or put an end to the situation... When this became public knowledge, everytime he played in the Arsenal shirt the fan booed him just like he deserved.. he had the nerve to say that the fans dont love him...im sorry but would you like us to welcome you with open arms u traitor?... he eventually left the club.. he said it wasnt for the money.. well what was it for then?? success? how on EARTH does chelsea's 3 fa cups and 3 league titles compare to arsenals 13 league titles and 10 fa cups??..chelsea's success is temporary... arsenals is permanent...it was all about the money.. arsenal offered him £55,000 a week but he wanted £60,000.. so along he went to chelsea.
he had the nerve to blame arsenal for the whole situation..HOW THE HELLL...... he said they did not protect him.. anyone with half a brain cell would know better!!.. protect you from what you brainless freak??.. every single player could be in the same situation as you... no-one is to blame for your actions but your self you useless prick.

the moral of this story is...

• that love and devotion withers away with time (not always) and that no matter how faithful you may think you are.. any eye can be attracted to something that they shouldnt be...
• people always take others for granted and then one day it comes and pinches u in the nipples..
• also that someone else is always to blame no matter how stupidly daft you may look or sound.. which ashley cole most definatly did..
• we can also draw from this that ashley cole is a two faced betrayer who cannot justify his actions with his stupid biography that i wouldnt even let my cat shit on.. and that he will regret the day he left and turned his back on arsenal football club.. i hope this comes back to bite him on his fat ass.. i also hope that his injury against blackburn is the begining of his punishment.. like justin timberlake sings...

'what goes around....comes back around...'

if and when love withers away.. will a person sit around and say that 'this is life?.'.. i doubt it.. many will look for something appealing and satisfying.. it seems that cheap thrills and materialistic things is what makes people happy...infidelity always has a reason no matter how silly or little or insignificant it may be... the root of infidelity is something that we know not of because if could be many many different things..
ive read that there is a possibility that there could be an infidelity gene... my personal views is that it is bullpoo anyone can be a victim or criminal of infidelity despite dodgy genes..

SiTES OF iNTEREST

INFIDELITY
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lorena_Bobbitt <------this one is a good laugh!

http://clippednews.wordpress.com/2004/11/25/womens-infidelity-gene/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s556imFuXdc <---- the Justin Timberlake 'what goes around...' vid-vid

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery

ASHLEY COLE
http://gunnerblog.com/?p=393

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Skt0KxmjP8c

M A S T E R B A T I O N

My views on the subject of masterbation are quite limited. i havent ever masterbated and fail to understand how an individual can become aroused by the touch of their own hand?

I see it as quiet degrading whether its a 13 year old going through puberty, a married person or an elderly person.

What i really cant comprehend is if a person has a partner why masterbate??.. you can shag them instead of feeling yourself up..

masterbating is used as an insult when we call someone a 'wanker' or 'tosser' for example ashley cole is a wanking tosser... and when a ref makes a dodgy decision 'the referee's a wanker'... does this mean that masterbation/masterbators are not accepted in society? does it mean that they are stupid?.. when using it as an insult why do we use it and in what context?

well like i said my thoughts on this are limited and have nothing else to write on this matter at this moment in time.. so i'll end it here.

SHOPLIFTING

WARNING: this is a LONGGG essay...and may bore u 2 sleep!but u could probably use it 2 black mail me.. so please read and commentyyyy! thanx

This is probably the worst or the BADDEST thing I’ve ever done (besides kissing other peoples boyfriends which really isn’t THAT bad). I shoplifted for the first time 3 years ago on Valentines day.. I was in city centre (I’m not going to name the shoppiesss or people involved...just the letter they begin with) with my cousins S, T, T2, and Z.

the first shop we went to was TS not many customers were there because it was early morning and the shop had only been open for about 15 mins. Anyways we were in the shop looking around; our intention was not to shoplift it just sort of happened. Well my cousin S found this mini book, sort of like a voucher that had things like 'I owe u one kiss’. 'I owe u a lap dance' and crap like that.. and the whole booklet was like about £5 and she only wanted one of the vouchers to give to her guy. so we just ripped it out the book and rolled it up and put it up her sleeve. we walked out like nothing had happened...we told my other 2 cousins T and T2 . T2 the eldest one was screwing saying we'll get caught and bla bla the usual stuff elders say!!.. anyways we made our way to the shops and ended up nicking one thing or another. we carried on doing this for quiet a few months without getting caught.

it was usually me and Z & S who went on a thieving spree...the other two T and T2 usually went together.. (Z,T and T2 are sisters) .we'd all steal things for one another and then laugh about it when we got home. we knew the perfect ways to conceal the products.. where the cameras were located in the stores and which items had security alarms. we were invincible (like arsenal in 2003/2004 season :) ). it wasn't that we didn’t have any money (we're not rolling around in £50 notes either!).. but it was the excitement of getting away with something that was wrong.. we were breaking a law and it was an adrenaline rush. each time we went it was something bigger and better... we stole brand named make up and perfumes... the most expensive thing we stole were boots which cost £90... from previous knowledge my cousin S had known that once that shop was busy the assistants left the customers on their own with the product in order to attended to other customers. anyways we ended up nicking the boots.. I felt so proud.

....One of the days we went, it was me S and Z... we went to RI and they had no camera's there.. easy job we thought.. I saw some nice combats and S saw a belt she liked... we made our ways to the changing rooms to 'try them on'.. in fact we were going to steal them.. before entering the changing room we'd hide the item we wanted inside another item that we were going to 'try on'... once in the changing room we'd get the hidden products and place them into out shopping bags. we did what we had to and made our way out the changing rooms giving back the item saying it wasn’t a good fit.. it was weird because it was as if the woman already knew that we didn’t want the products.. she said 'no good is it?'.. even before I said whether I want it or not... anyways we got the hell out that shop and went to SF and went down to the lingerie section and put garments into our bags as if we were taking sweets from a pick and mix stand. we noticed two men in the underwear section with a woman, which I thought was pretty dodgy.. I dismissed the thought and told myself they were probably looking 4 a late gift for their partner for valentines day (which was that day!).. anyway we got out the shop and went to TR and took some chocolate bars and put them up our sleeves..

I looked out the entrance door and saw two men coming into the shop.. unaware that they were the same ones from SF.. they grabbed us from our arms and I nearly shat my pants.. I knew I was caught.. the excitement had ended and I was going to be dead meat!!!... they dragged us back to RI warning us not to try and escape.. they took us down the back of the shop and downstairs where there was a woman there.. one of the men asked if we knew why we were here.. no-one responded. S replied 'no'.. she was like 'what have we done...'. they knew why we were there and we did too. I spoke up and said yes.. the woman asked if we had stolen anything from RI.. and we denied it likes fools.. they searched our bags and noted down all the products we had stolen and their prices.. the prices were calculated... we were told that we would b cautioned only but because we had stolen items of large value we'd have to be taken to the police station... I was dying!! .. they noted down our names and address's.. I was told that I’d get 5years before my name was cleared off the register as I was under 18... S and Z got 3 years (which was over last weds!)... they told us we'd be handcuffed for their safety and so we didn’t try to run away... we begged them not to but they only had 2 handcuffs and there were 3 of us.. they said that the two handcuffed ones will sit at the back on the van and the non-handcuffed would sit with the policemen.. me and S were handcuffed and taken out the shop along with Z

... it was so embarrassing and no longer was I proud.. I was ashamed .. not ashamed of stealing but of getting caught.. I still don’t regret shoplifting till this day.

we were in the van.. me and S pondering on what will happen to us.. we were taken to the station where we were told to wait while other 'criminals' were dealt with.. a young Asian lady officer approached us and told us that we shouldn’t be shoplifting, how this would tarnish our future and the rest of it.. I was like whatever Mother Theresa.. if u cant get me out of here then don’t lecture me... our names and address were taken down and placed onto their system including our telephone numbers!!.. they told us that they would be contacting our homes to check we gave the right address.. I was once again on the verge of shitting my pants.. I suddenly realized how disappointed and hurt my parents would be.. I wanted to cry.. they made us remove anything harmful like jewelry and shoelaces and took our handbags and then searched us all over.. we were placed in a cell.. I have no idea WHY..

S was in the one few away from me.. and Z was downstairs somewhere.. we screamed to each other.. talking in our mother tongue (Urdu) discussing what the fuck we were going to do once we get out and what we'd tell our parents. I was in my cell for what seemed likes 3hours.. I was crying my eyes out screaming at the top of my lungs for them to get me out of there.. I continuously prayed and hoped that God would just make me wake up and that this was all just a very bad dream... it failed to happen. we could here a woman in the cell downstairs screaming non-stop since we arrived.! the cell was digesting! there was a nasty loo with pee and nasty diseases on it and a blue mat to sleep on. I wanted to puke.. I wanted the earth to open up and just swallow me. that too failed to happen.. after a while I couldn’t get a response from S when I called out for her. one of the officers came to my cell and offered me food, I told them that I wasn’t eating it if it wasn’t vegetarian. They said that I’d be let out the shit hole of a cell in a bit so I told them that I didn’t want their crappy food.

Not long after an officer let me out and they took my down to like a mini lab. They took my DNA, fingerprints and photo. they told me that my dad had phoned a few times and told me to return the call but I refused because I was too scared to face the wrath of my dad. I asked the officer what my father had said on the phone and he said why I was at the station and if I was ok. Well I was surprised he asked how I was because I’d get a good bollocking once I got home. I went out the station, delighted to inhale the fresh air.

I saw S standing outside we both giggled. We conversated on what we should do.. she told me that she asked a passerby to ring her mother and act as an officer. He pretended to be one of the wanker officers and said that there had been a misunderstanding and that they had arrested the wrong people and how deeply sorry he was to put S and her family through this. She advised me to do the same, so I went across to the hospital car park that was opposite the shit hole of a temporary prison/jail. I found a guy faffing about looking for keys or something. I filled him in on what had happened and what I needed him to do. He was nervous and reluctant to do it.. but I begged him… so he rang and my dad picked up.. the random guy introduced himself as ‘officer smith’ how original. He explained that it was a mistake and that he was very sorry. I could hear my dad screaming and swearing down the phone to ‘officer smith’. I heard my dad ask his badge number or something and the fella didn’t know what to say so he just cut it off. He said sorry to me for cutting it off, he didn’t know what to say. I told him not to worry and thanked him. Z eventually came out and she rang home.. her sister had picked up the phone and gave us all a good screaming down the line.. she hadn’t told her mum about what had happened but just told her mum that Z was over at my house that’s why she wasn’t home yet.

Anyways I eventually came home.. and dad just looked at me asking what happened half screaming.. I told him that 3 girls who looked very similar to me Z and S shoplifted from a shop and they thought it was us. I said that we had watched the footage from CCTV camera and the girl did very much resemble us, but then realized it wasn’t us because they were caught shoplifting elsewhere. And that they had falsely accused of shoplifting.. he believed me thank god.. then mum came asking the same question as dad and I gave her the same answer.

I only ever shoplifted once or twice after that and I haven’t done it for a very long time. Not because I think it is wrong but because I am afraid of getting caught. I do not feel that what I did was wrong nor do I regret it. We live in a capitalist world where the middle class owns the means of mass production.. these people are LOADED, its not as if a few stolen goods will make a dent in their wallet. I know I sound ignorant but I really am not. I just think that there are more important things to do in the world than keep and eye on shoplifters. The government doesn’t protect people, it protects property, that is why there a useless officers looking for people shoplifting rather than looking for murders or rapists. I am not using Marxism as an excuse, well I am partly..

but hmmm I don’t know. I think it’s worse if you steal from people rather than companies. A person may have an attachment to something or may have paid a lot of money for it. Its worse stealing from them than it is from big companies with inflated prices.

The feeling of getting away with stealing is an adrenaline rush. It’s a mixture of stress, tension and excitement (and A LOT or sweating!). the feeling is like watching your football team take penalties to win the FA Cup or Champions League or some sort of trophy, like when Arsenal beat Manchester United in 2005 on penalties for the FA Cup. It was like death through orgasm watching Arsenal shoot the ball in 5 times as that cunt Paul Scholes missed his. Use the crappy England squad for example.. when they cocked up on penalties against Portugal in the Euro and World Cup..ur just wandering will the ball go in or not... and ur heart is beatin 10 times as fast.. its the same with shoplifting except your thinkin 'will i get away with this or not'..

I think that 'penalty-shoot-out-adrenaline-rush' is much safer for me these days.

Smoking

... I smoke sometimes, though not all the time. I get sudden urges and can't be bothered to fight them. The first time i smoked it was in the school playground behind the gym, there were no camera's at the time. I was about 13 then, I've got two sisters 15 and 13, and to imagine them smoking at that age is scary!! The first time I took a drag, i didn't cough and splutter suprisingly, like most people do.. I didnt see what all the hype was about a fag.. I didn't feel any different. I had it with a few of my friends, but I don't think I would have tried smoking at such a young age if it wasn't for them. I don't see smoking as a big deal really... if people want to smoke then so be it. I think the ban on smoking in public places is a bit extreme... the only place an individual can smoke is in their house, its pretty stupid really. I understand that smoking is not an admirable 'hobby' but to ban it in ALL public places is pretty ridiculous. Perhaps there should be certain bars/club/etc that allow smoking on particular days or time. My parents dont know I smoke, and I was dying for one (this was when i was about 16/17), so I had to have it in my bedroom with half my body hanging out the window, I almost got caught my the next door neighbour who seemed to be watching me from his bathroom window (peadophile!!).When he saw me look his way he disappeared. The next day he saw my dad and called him over, I began to shit my pants (not literally!!).. I was trying to get my dad to ignore him and drag him into the house. i was SO scared of what he might say. But it was nothing THANK GOD!..he wanted a lift somewhere, stupid wanker..

FIELD TRIP!!!

A suitable field trip would be to go watch Arsenal kick Chelsea's ass in the Carling cup final in about a fortnight, we could start a fight with the Chelsea fans and have a big hooligan party. This would be BAD (hence the module title!).. !!..this could be a revolutionary movement in the world of football if we acted like hooligans and bashed in the chelsea chavs and their glory hunting ways. Arsenal would win he Carling Cup, Ashley Cole would break both his legs permanantly while scoring an own goal (also the WINNING goal) this would be the offical demise of Chelsea Football Club. All the players like Shevchenko, Lampard and Terry (and Ashley Cole the traitor!) would be forced to leave and rot in the Arsenal reserves for not having enough spirit to win the game. Jose mourinho would become the ball boy at the Emirates Stadium, Roman Abromavic would just disappear from the face of this Earth and donate his money to Tottenham Hotspurs to buy some decent players so that they could have the slighest chance of competing against the best team in North London... ARSENAL!

After this, people would thank us for killing Chelsea before they killed football... We would go down in history as hero's!

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but thats not going to happen!!.. my mate suggested we go and watch that Harry Potter guy in his theatre show which im sure is in London... its about him being erotically attatched to a horse or something (kind of likeFreud's Little Hans!).. it sounds interestinggg....!!!!!